Friday, 31 May 2013

5 Major Signs Your Relationship Is Crashing

Have you ever felt like you are stuck in the relationship that you can’t seem to get out of?

So, what are the possible signs that indicate your relationship has hit rock bottom? We are here to help you to raise the red flag:

1. Constant bickering:
A couple that does not fight does not communicate or so they say. But, if you are constantly fighting without any valid reason then there is a serious problem, my friend. Have you ever felt that even a
petty reason is enough to create an enormous fight? Or are you venting your office frustration at your partner? If you feel like you are constantly walking on eggshells, it’s time you took a step back and re-evaluated your relationship.
2. Concealing your thoughts and feelings:
Do you no longer share ancedotes, hopes and dreams with your partner? Have you stopped bitching about your boss to your better half? Holding your thoughts and feelings back is not going to save your relationship. Remember the days when you just couldn’t stop expressing your problems, happy moments and dreams? Take a leaf from those days and start taking time out and talking! Concealing your feelings will give room to suspicions and you certainly do not want that!
3. Boredom:
All relationships tend to become stagnant after a few years. If you’re in it for the long haul, it is your responsibility to reinvent your relationship. Are you just having the “Pass the butter” conversations? Have you stopped showing excitement for anniversaries and birthdays? Try taking up a hobby together, going on romantic dates and start EXPRESSING! More importantly, make your partner feel wanted.

4. Staying out
In the initial dating phase, you would finish your work early to meet your partner! Has that stopped now? Are you making lame excuses in order to avoid your partner?  You go out more than often for drinks with your work colleagues, start staying indoors with a bouquet of excuses and tend to stay in the office most of the day and even night! Your relationship is doomed if you are leading independent and separate lives. Talk it out or just MOVE ON!
5. Reduced Physical Intimacy
Do you remember the last time you felt butterflies when he/she touched you? Or are you just making stupid excuses to avoid sleeping with each other? If you do not remember the last time you both had sex, then your relationship is bound to fail. Since, sex is a major motivation towards a progressive relationship; you need to start showing affection towards each other to rekindle your romance. A quick tip: revisit that honeymoon phase!

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